why is it always never enough for guys? a friend of mine found out that her boyfriend was having cybersex with random girls online and she totally flipped. he argued that it's nothing and that he loves her blah blah blah. i don't understand. she's a hot babe and they are great together. why would her boyfriend chat up random girls on the internet? *raise an eyebrow* what's the deal with cybersex anyway? the element of mystery? or that very very very slight possibility that cybersex would not count as cheating since everything is happening in the virtual space? grow up, guys. that is so fighting against your conscience. if you have to find an excuse to get away with something, then that something is so obviously wrong! in any case, it's the intent that counts. if proof of intent is enough to be found guilty in courts, then proof of intent is good enough for me. and besides, we all know the postal code rule only exists in movies or maybe only if your other half is just a fling and nothing serious.

and fyi, cybersex still counts as cheating. tough luck. hah.

oh and you know what's the other funny thing? guys are usually oh wait. correction: ALWAYS more forgiving toward themselves. example. girl confronts guy about cheating. guy will magically produce a whole string of reasons and excuses to squirm out of the hot seat, even if he is guilty. but say it's the guy confronting the girl for the same thing. do you think guy will even listen to girl? no way! guy will declare verdict even faster than you can say "abc".